I hate it when the boy takes a few weeks to say yes, and when he finally does, the shadchan gives you three days to look into him.
I hate it when the boy takes two weeks to say no, and when asked why, he says that he doesn't give reasons.
I hate it when the boy says no based on information he got from other people, and won't give a reason for saying no.
I hate it when the boy makes you meet his mother and then says no, but won't tell you why, because the girl can't do anything about it anyway.
I hate it when the boy takes you out on two dates, keeping you out very late on the second one, and then says no without any prior warning.
I hate it when the boy...
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14 years ago
2 comments:
So sorry to hear you're having a rough time.... :-/
Yeah, all those stink big time... Makes you wonder where mentchlachkeit has gone, no?... But y'know what? The guy you get is gonna be a *huge* mentch, and all these other guys and their mothers will be shadows in the distance while you revel in the awesome happiness and clarity that will be when the time comes...
And b"ezH it should be very very soon!!
Hatzlacha.......and....hang in there......
(((hug)))
It sounds like you just went through a difficult experience with a boy/boys. I'm really sorry about that...
Yes, those things you mentioned are very frustrating and the entire shidduch process can be demeaning and degrading. I really hope that you'll be able to put all this behind you VERY soon and it should be a pleasant experience for you from the beginning and forever...
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